We involve the husband in child care
You have been waiting for this event for so long, and now it has happened: you have a baby.
But the first disappointment did not take long to wait: dad does not show interest in the child.
Why is this happening, because he has been looking forward to your baby for all 9 months.
It is by no means worth ignoring this problem, thinking that dad will take care of the child later, when the baby grows up.
Involve Dad in the parenting process from the very first days.
Mom really needs rest at this time to fully feed the baby.
The husband is afraid to take the baby in his arms, it seems to him that with an awkward movement he can harm the fragile little man?
These fears can be overcome by action: let him take a crumb on his hands more often.
Moreover, the baby really likes it.
He is looking forward to Dad's return from work, loves Dad's voice.
Pay your husband's attention to this, let him see for himself that he is needed and irreplaceable.
"A kind word and a cat is pleased."
Praise your husband more often, not only for what he does well, but also for what is not working out yet.
Notice all his efforts, supporting them with a kind word, but do not criticize, so as not to discourage the desire to help you in the future.
If you need time to do household chores, send your dad for a walk with the baby, or even better, make their joint walks regular.
Perhaps, over time, Dad will take the child for a walk on his own initiative.
It may happen that Dad does not succeed, despite all his efforts.
Well, this is not a reason to completely remove him from all duties.
Let him do more usual things for him – go shopping or do cleaning.
There is no need to follow the stereotypes of the distribution of responsibilities: dad goes to work, mom raises a child.
Dads are no worse able to cope with the care of the baby, and this, in turn, strengthens the family and has a beneficial effect on the development of the child.
The appearance of a baby in the family is a good reason for dad to reveal his culinary abilities.
It may turn out that you didn't even know before how great your husband cooks. While you are busy with the child, give your husband the opportunity to prove himself in the kitchen.
And it may turn out that you should not expect culinary masterpieces from him.
In this case, it will be enough if he helps you to cook the most ordinary and simple dishes.
Appreciate the help provided and do not leave it without encouragement.
If Dad has been trying and helping you with the child all week, then he deserves to get the opportunity to go fishing or go to football.
Feel sorry for each other, go to meet each other, and then with the appearance of a new member in your family, life will not turn into a stream of routine and mutual reproaches. Erotic massage
But the first disappointment did not take long to wait: dad does not show interest in the child.
Why is this happening, because he has been looking forward to your baby for all 9 months.
It is by no means worth ignoring this problem, thinking that dad will take care of the child later, when the baby grows up.
Involve Dad in the parenting process from the very first days.
Mom really needs rest at this time to fully feed the baby.
The husband is afraid to take the baby in his arms, it seems to him that with an awkward movement he can harm the fragile little man?
These fears can be overcome by action: let him take a crumb on his hands more often.
Moreover, the baby really likes it.
He is looking forward to Dad's return from work, loves Dad's voice.
Pay your husband's attention to this, let him see for himself that he is needed and irreplaceable.
"A kind word and a cat is pleased."
Praise your husband more often, not only for what he does well, but also for what is not working out yet.
Notice all his efforts, supporting them with a kind word, but do not criticize, so as not to discourage the desire to help you in the future.
If you need time to do household chores, send your dad for a walk with the baby, or even better, make their joint walks regular.
Perhaps, over time, Dad will take the child for a walk on his own initiative.
It may happen that Dad does not succeed, despite all his efforts.
Well, this is not a reason to completely remove him from all duties.
Let him do more usual things for him – go shopping or do cleaning.
There is no need to follow the stereotypes of the distribution of responsibilities: dad goes to work, mom raises a child.
Dads are no worse able to cope with the care of the baby, and this, in turn, strengthens the family and has a beneficial effect on the development of the child.
The appearance of a baby in the family is a good reason for dad to reveal his culinary abilities.
It may turn out that you didn't even know before how great your husband cooks. While you are busy with the child, give your husband the opportunity to prove himself in the kitchen.
And it may turn out that you should not expect culinary masterpieces from him.
In this case, it will be enough if he helps you to cook the most ordinary and simple dishes.
Appreciate the help provided and do not leave it without encouragement.
If Dad has been trying and helping you with the child all week, then he deserves to get the opportunity to go fishing or go to football.
Feel sorry for each other, go to meet each other, and then with the appearance of a new member in your family, life will not turn into a stream of routine and mutual reproaches. Erotic massage
